The calm man, having learned how to govern himself, knows how to adapt himself to others; and they, in turn, reverence his spiritual strength, and feel that they can learn of him and rely upon him.
从容的人学会了管理自己,也就懂得如何与他人相处;他人也因此敬重他的精神力量,觉得可以向他学习,并且信赖他。
— James Allen · As a Man Thinketh (1903) · Serenity —