I am sorry when my independence is invaded, or when a gift comes from such as do not know my spirit, and so the act is not supported; and if the gift pleases me overmuch, then I should be ashamed that the donor should read my heart, and see that I love his commodity, and not him.

当我的独立受到侵犯，或礼物来自不了解我心意的人、因而缺乏理解的支撑时，我会难过；而若礼物令我过分欢喜，我又该羞愧，怕赠予者看穿我的心，发现我爱的是他的东西，而不是他。