The lover takes a perilous pleasure in privately displaying his weak points and having them, one after another, accepted and condoned.
恋人会在私下袒露自己的弱点,看着它们被一一接纳与宽宥,并从中获得一种带着风险的快乐。
— Robert Louis Stevenson · Virginibus Puerisque, and Other Papers · On Falling in Love —