Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature—it requires, in fact, the nature of a true Individualist—to sympathise with a friend’s success.
任何人都能同情朋友的苦难,但要为朋友的成功感到欣喜,却需要极美好的天性——事实上,需要真正具有独立人格的天性。
— Oscar Wilde · The Soul of Man —