Idleness, which is often becoming and even wise in the bachelor, begins to wear a different aspect when you have a wife to support.
闲散对于单身者常常无伤大雅,甚至不失明智;但当你需要供养妻子时,它就开始显出另一副面貌。
— Robert Louis Stevenson · Virginibus Puerisque, and Other Papers · Virginibus Puerisque · II —