He has to deal with commanding emotions instead of the easy dislikes and preferences in which he has hitherto passed his days; and he recognises capabilities for pain and pleasure of which he had not yet suspected the existence.
他必须面对支配自己的强烈情感,而不再只是往日那些轻淡的好恶;他也开始发现,自己竟能承受从未料想过的痛苦与快乐。
— Robert Louis Stevenson · Virginibus Puerisque, and Other Papers · Virginibus Puerisque · III · On Falling in Love —